The goal for our parents is to accompany us during good and bad moments of our lives . If a parent really care about his child ,he will never force him do something he doesn't want to do . I have a lot of recpect for my parents , but they don't have to decide in my place what i'll to do later , i want to make my own decisions , what's the use to do something for a lot of years if we hate it? During many years my mother told me to become doctor and i thought it was what i want but now i don't know. If later i'll choose another dream job , and my mother disagrees with it , i'll do what i want . It's my life . I know my parents want the best for me but i can't make the mistake to don't do my own mistakes, and all know we learn about our mistakes . To conclude I think we need to makes mistakes , and to makes our decision, it isn't to our parents to decide for us . Mélissa boudrâa 205
To start with, I am a young girl who is a bit confused about her future and fortunately I have my parents who help me to find my destiny. To other young people who have a dream or a real an concrete idea of their future, and who have a different vision from their parents; I think they should do whatever they think great for them but I am sure that parents just imagined their children's future in a different way, and they just want to help them to be sure they are doing well by making some choices.
I think our parents have nothing to say about our destiny, I think that if my parents tried to force me to do something, it would make me laugh more than anything else because I am free and I do what I want to do. It sets my life and if my parents are not able to understand me and support me in my career choices, too bad for them, I would not let anyone get in the way of my choices. I'm not saying it wouldn't sadden me if they didn't support me, but I won't let them choose or direct my life for me. Mathilde BESCOND 1S1
Hi everyone, First, I think we can all agree on saying that we sometimes disagree with our parents. Sometimes it's about unimportant things but sometimes on important thing like our futur. I believe that listening to our parents is most of time a good idea. However you can't let them take big decision about your life because it is YOUR life and not their life. You are the one living it, not them. Speaking for myself, I totally understand the children that go against their parent's will to follow their dream. To conclude, you should listen to your parents because they want the best for you but that does not mean that you can't follow your own destiny and make your own decisions.
Hello everyone, First I think that every parents want the best for their children then they will never guide us to a wrong or bad way so going against our parents will just create conflicts and not forge our destiny. That doesn't mean that your parents have to make decisions for us like for our futur, if we disagree with them we should talk with them and explain our point of view. To finish I think you have to listen to your parents but still can take your own decisions. Chaima Ben Hadj Khalifa
Hello! I believe that as long as those young people are confident and hopefully have a backup plan, they’re completely free to forge their own destiny and their parents should support them. If the latter don’t then, it doesn’t matter and it’s a brave and justified act to want to pursue their own and chosen happiness.
Although in some cases, parents have good intentions, for example so their children live well in the future. But in other cases, maybe most cases, parents have selfish will : they want their children to follow the path they dreamed of, but couldn’t achieve, or find their will to be the only correct one. Personally, I encountered this situation but one of my parents supported me. But even without that support, I would have stayed true to my decision as it is my choice and I will take responsibility for that, like everything else in my life. Victoria H., 1L1
The goal for our parents is to accompany us during good and bad moments of our lives . If a parent really care about his child ,he will never force him do something he doesn't want to do . I have a lot of recpect for my parents , but they don't have to decide in my place what i'll to do later , i want to make my own decisions , what's the use to do something for a lot of years if we hate it? During many years my mother told me to become doctor and i thought it was what i want but now i don't know. If later i'll choose another dream job , and my mother disagrees with it , i'll do what i want . It's my life . I know my parents want the best for me but i can't make the mistake to don't do my own mistakes, and all know we learn about our mistakes . To conclude I think we need to makes mistakes , and to makes our decision, it isn't to our parents to decide for us . Mélissa boudrâa 205
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ReplyDeleteTo start with, I am a young girl who is a bit confused about her future and fortunately I have my parents who help me to find my destiny.
To other young people who have a dream or a real an concrete idea of their future, and who have a different vision from their parents; I think they should do whatever they think great for them but I am sure that parents just imagined their children's future in a different way, and they just want to help them to be sure they are doing well by making some choices.
Mayane
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I think our parents have nothing to say about our destiny, I think that if my parents tried to force me to do something, it would make me laugh more than anything else because I am free and I do what I want to do. It sets my life and if my parents are not able to understand me and support me in my career choices, too bad for them, I would not let anyone get in the way of my choices. I'm not saying it wouldn't sadden me if they didn't support me, but I won't let them choose or direct my life for me.
ReplyDeleteMathilde BESCOND 1S1
Hi everyone,
ReplyDeleteFirst, I think we can all agree on saying that we sometimes disagree with our parents. Sometimes it's about unimportant things but sometimes on important thing like our futur. I believe that listening to our parents is most of time a good idea. However you can't let them take big decision about your life because it is YOUR life and not their life. You are the one living it, not them.
Speaking for myself, I totally understand the children that go against their parent's will to follow their dream.
To conclude, you should listen to your parents because they want the best for you but that does not mean that you can't follow your own destiny and make your own decisions.
Hello everyone,
ReplyDeleteFirst I think that every parents want the best for their children then they will never guide us to a wrong or bad way so going against our parents will just create conflicts and not forge our destiny. That doesn't mean that your parents have to make decisions for us like for our futur, if we disagree with them we should talk with them and explain our point of view.
To finish I think you have to listen to your parents but still can take your own decisions.
Chaima Ben Hadj Khalifa
Sorry I made some mistakes:
Delete-every parent wants
-so they will never guide us in a wrong way
-for our future
Hello!
ReplyDeleteI believe that as long as those young people are confident and hopefully have a backup plan, they’re completely free to forge their own destiny and their parents should support them. If the latter don’t then, it doesn’t matter and it’s a brave and justified act to want to pursue their own and chosen happiness.
Although in some cases, parents have good intentions, for example so their children live well in the future. But in other cases, maybe most cases, parents have selfish will : they want their children to follow the path they dreamed of, but couldn’t achieve, or find their will to be the only correct one.
Personally, I encountered this situation but one of my parents supported me. But even without that support, I would have stayed true to my decision as it is my choice and I will take responsibility for that, like everything else in my life.
Victoria H., 1L1