2016/11/27

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Hi everyone, I was looking for a subject for the blog and I found an article about sexual abuse so my question is :
If you were abused  what would you do?

13 comments:

  1. If I was abused, I'll tell my parents right away because it's an act very inapropriate and awful! I think that you shouldn't keep it for yourself because this act destroys many people to whom it happened, mostly womens. It's necessary to talk about it to your family and you don't have to be afraid of the consequences.

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  2. "If I were ...I would tell ... it is a very inappropriate and awful act.... many people are victims of...WOMEN

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  3. if I were abused , the first thing I would do, is to tell it to my dad but really first thing i would be to defend myself

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  4. For a boy the question is delicate, this subject rarely affects boys of our age and it is thus difficult to answer the question but according to me it would be better to speak about it with somebody of close friend, in particular an adult.

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  5. Hi ! I agree with Abyss. This is rarely happening to teenager boy, so it's hard to give good awnser. But if it happens to me, I'll try to talk about it, and find solutions with cops and my family. Of course I'll be shy and cringe, but I think it's normal to explain what happened.

    Sorry if ther's mistakes, don't forgot to correct me if there is.

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  6. I have the same opinion, if you are abused, you have to talk about this and contact the police faster than you can
    and try to find some solutions, find the perpetrator(s) and try to forget this horrible experience.

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  7. Hello,
    I agree with Léo and Abyss with the fact that girls are more often abused than boys. That's maybe why I never thought about it in the past. So, if that happened I think I will try to speak with a friend or with my family to feel better and decide what to do.

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  8. hello.
    I agree with everybody and i think if it happened i talk about that with my parents and the police.
    Ilian Tagredj

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  9. It is a very dangerous action that can lead to violes with negative consequences, many people have committed suicide so if I were abused I would say it directly to my parents

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  10. I think if that happens I would defend myself

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  11. Well personally, I was sexually abused by my uncle. I often think about it and how I could have reacted instead the way I did. I was abused a few times, and I was always (too) obedient with my abuser : I'd do whatever he'd tell me to do, even if I felt so bad at that moment that it would make me sick. Of course I was not consenting, I had no idea of what was happening to me, but I knew it was wrong. I was very young, and because my abuser was a member of my family, I think I did what he wanted me to do because I was scared. I was 100 percent sure that if I'd talk about it, my family wouldn't believe me. DO NOT THINK LIKE THAT. Boy or girl, if you're getting sexually abused, just tell it to your family. And if you're too scared to talk about it to your parents, maybe go see one of your teachers, or a friend. I should have yelled, I should have struggled, I should have ran away from him, and I just... sat still and waited until he was done. I wish this never happens to anyone, and if you, the person who reads this comment, it happened to you and you're the only one who knows about this, please go talk about it to someone you trust. I know you must feel like nobody believes you, but don't worry : there will always be someone who will know that what you say is true.

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