To overcome my disappointments, I try to think about something else. I listen to music or watch films which help me. If I would give an advice a friend, I think it will be : think about something more important, having fun, do whatever he likes ... In my mind, the biggest glory of the human is not to fall but is to know to rise from its ruins every time we fall.
"If I had to give a friend a piece of advice I think it would be.. to think about something else, have fun, do whatever you like.. To my mind man's greatest power is ......"
The deception designates a sens that is felt when we don’t have what we want. It showes a dissatisfaction, a desillusion. It can be due because of a relationship between two persons like love deception or friendly betroyal ... But also because of a plan which fall thraugh or a loser performance. More we invest ourselves, bigger is the deception.
I can advice a disappointed friend, that we have to know if we are reponsible in the situation, to call ourselves into question, and to assume. If there is a suffering, I can advice him to speak about it, and as Marine said, think about something else more important, enjoy other moments, listen to music ...
I will finish with a sentence by Geaorge Sand : Deceptions don’t kill, the esperance is vital.
"sense.....shows disillusion...... due to a relationship.......two people.....such as......betrayal..... fall through. The more we....... the greater the deception.. I would advise..... responsible for....to question ourselves.... If he or she is suffering I would advise.... else that is more important....hope/esperance is vital"
I think that disappointments are part of life and this is a way to be stronger and push the limits when everything is at its worst. Also, we can see because of disappointments that life is not always pink (sorry if it seems french) and there is always a solution for every problem. Of course, we cannot blame people who disappoint us but we have to be careful. I agree with Alissia when she says that the more we invest ourselves,the greater the deception is. Personally when i am disappointed i try to understand what was wrong to work on myself but when you're sad the best thing to do is to listen to music or do something you enjoy to try to think about something else. Nevertheless,if a friend is sad because she/he is disappointed, i think that i would tell him/her that he/she has to do anything else to try to be more strong. So when we are disappointed, it is nice to have a friend to confide, who is able to help us thinking of anything else.
Everyone has got disappointments at least the best solution is to go and see friends to tell them about disappointmens. Therefore, what should we do? How do I overcome my disappointments?
First, when I’ve got disappointments, all the time I speak about my problems to my bestfriend. She always finds a solution, and she doesn’t hesitate to be honest. When a friend has got disappointments I do everything to cheer him up. Besides I told him that tomorrow is another day and that the best solution if he has a problem with someone is to go talk to him about. So I think the best solution is to speak with a friend. However it is important to overcome his troubles because it is in adversity that we become hardened.
when I'm disappointed, I change me the ideas and I tell me there is worse in the life. I think my advice will be: Think about something else and that will pass.
"life is not always rose (is not a bed of roses) French....... try to be stronger..... to confide in.... help us think of something else... " "Tell them about your disappointments...... I speak about my problems all the time/ I tell my best friend .... she always tries to be honest...Besides, I tell him that... talk to him about it...to overcome your troubles..... that we become stronger and hardened". " I change my ideas..... I tell myself that there is worst things in life.....and forget about it."
Most of the time, when I'm disappointed, I cry my disappointment out. I just cannot help it, when something disappoints me I have the ungovernable need crying. I also feel that way when I'm mad at someone or about something, or when I feel any other negative emotions. I don't talk about it to my friends, I feel like I'd be too much of a burden to them. I can give you some advice, even if I don't know if they really work. I think that, when you're disappointed, you should look at something you're proud of : a poem you wrote, a diploma you've received,a music you've composed, etc... and link these things you're proud of to the positive reactions people had towards it, for example the girl who accepted to date you thanks to the poem she found extremely romantic, your parents holding you tight and telling you that you're the best when they've learnt that you had the diploma, your favorite singer who accepted to use the music you composed to sing on it. I hope that this technique works, and have a nice day :)
To overcome my disappointments, I try to think about something else. I listen to music or watch films which help me. If I would give an advice a friend, I think it will be : think about something more important, having fun, do whatever he likes ...
ReplyDeleteIn my mind, the biggest glory of the human is not to fall but is to know to rise from its ruins every time we fall.
"If I had to give a friend a piece of advice I think it would be.. to think about something else, have fun, do whatever you like.. To my mind man's greatest power is ......"
ReplyDeleteThe deception designates a sens that is felt when we don’t have what we want. It showes a dissatisfaction, a desillusion.
ReplyDeleteIt can be due because of a relationship between two persons like love deception or friendly betroyal ... But also because of a plan which fall thraugh or a loser performance.
More we invest ourselves, bigger is the deception.
I can advice a disappointed friend, that we have to know if we are reponsible in the situation, to call ourselves into question, and to assume. If there is a suffering, I can advice him to speak about it, and as Marine said, think about something else more important, enjoy other moments, listen to music ...
I will finish with a sentence by Geaorge Sand :
Deceptions don’t kill, the esperance is vital.
"sense.....shows disillusion...... due to a relationship.......two people.....such as......betrayal..... fall through. The more we....... the greater the deception..
ReplyDeleteI would advise..... responsible for....to question ourselves.... If he or she is suffering I would advise.... else that is more important....hope/esperance is vital"
I think that disappointments are part of life and this is a way to be stronger and push the limits when everything is at its worst. Also, we can see because of disappointments that life is not always pink (sorry if it seems french) and there is always a solution for every problem.
ReplyDeleteOf course, we cannot blame people who disappoint us but we have to be careful. I agree with Alissia when she says that the more we invest ourselves,the greater the deception is.
Personally when i am disappointed i try to understand what was wrong to work on myself but when you're sad the best thing to do is to listen to music or do something you enjoy to try to think about something else.
Nevertheless,if a friend is sad because she/he is disappointed, i think that i would tell him/her that he/she has to do anything else to try to be more strong. So when we are disappointed, it is nice to have a friend to confide, who is able to help us thinking of anything else.
Everyone has got disappointments at least the best solution is to go and see friends to tell them about disappointmens. Therefore, what should we do? How do I overcome my disappointments?
ReplyDeleteFirst, when I’ve got disappointments, all the time I speak about my problems to my bestfriend. She always finds a solution, and she doesn’t hesitate to be honest.
When a friend has got disappointments I do everything to cheer him up. Besides I told him that tomorrow is another day and that the best solution if he has a problem with someone is to go talk to him about.
So I think the best solution is to speak with a friend. However it is important to overcome his troubles because it is in adversity that we become hardened.
when I'm disappointed, I change me the ideas and I tell me there is worse in the life. I think my advice will be: Think about something else and that will pass.
ReplyDelete"life is not always rose (is not a bed of roses) French....... try to be stronger..... to confide in.... help us think of something else... " "Tell them about your disappointments...... I speak about my problems all the time/ I tell my best friend .... she always tries to be honest...Besides, I tell him that... talk to him about it...to overcome your troubles..... that we become stronger and hardened". " I change my ideas..... I tell myself that there is worst things in life.....and forget about it."
ReplyDeleteMost of the time, when I'm disappointed, I cry my disappointment out. I just cannot help it, when something disappoints me I have the ungovernable need crying. I also feel that way when I'm mad at someone or about something, or when I feel any other negative emotions. I don't talk about it to my friends, I feel like I'd be too much of a burden to them. I can give you some advice, even if I don't know if they really work. I think that, when you're disappointed, you should look at something you're proud of : a poem you wrote, a diploma you've received,a music you've composed, etc... and link these things you're proud of to the positive reactions people had towards it, for example the girl who accepted to date you thanks to the poem she found extremely romantic, your parents holding you tight and telling you that you're the best when they've learnt that you had the diploma, your favorite singer who accepted to use the music you composed to sing on it. I hope that this technique works, and have a nice day :)
ReplyDelete